Relationship Building

How to Nurture a Relationship When There’s No Immediate Deal

How to Nurture a Relationship When There’s No Immediate Deal
How to Nurture a Relationship When There’s No Immediate Deal
How to Nurture a Relationship When There’s No Immediate Deal
Date

Oct 18, 2025

Author

Matt Astarita

Struggling with a pipeline full of "Not Now" prospects? Let's clear the air. Most Partnership Managers are hunters. If the target isn't ready to buy, they shoot once, miss, and move on.

This is a waste of ammunition. In 2026, 95% of your market is not currently "In-Market." They don't have the budget, the bandwidth, or the mandate today.

But they might in 6 months. The difference between a frantic quarter and a record-breaking quarter is what you do with the 95% while they are in the waiting room.

If you ghost them, they forget you. If you annoy them ("Just checking in!"), they block you. You need a third option: Strategic Nurturing. Here is how to stay "Top of Mind" without being a pest.


The "Parking Lot" Strategy

First, stop treating "Not Now" as "Lost." In your CRM, create a specific stage called "The Parking Lot."

  • Lost: They chose a competitor or they are structurally a bad fit. (Dead).

  • Parking Lot: They love the vision, but lack resources. (Dormant).

The Rule: You never "Check In" on the Parking Lot. You only "Add Value" to them. A "Check In" asks for their time. A "Value Add" gives them an asset.


The "Zero-Ask" Update

The goal is to show up in their inbox once a quarter so they remember your name. But your email must contain Zero Asks. No "Can we chat?" No "Any updates?"

The Template:

*"Hi [Name],

Saw this [Article/Report] about the shift in [Industry Trend] and thought of our last conversation.

No need to reply—just thought you’d find the data on page 4 interesting.

Hope Q3 is treating you well."*

The Psychology:

  • "No need to reply": This removes the pressure. They read it, appreciate it, and don't feel guilty.

  • Relevance: It proves you actually listened to them.

[Internal Link Opportunity]: Link this section to Article #73: "Why 'Giving First' is the Best Partnership Strategy" to reinforce the value-add approach.


The "Trigger Event" Radar

Don't rely on your memory. Rely on data. Set up alerts (Google Alerts, LinkedIn Sales Navigator) for your Parking Lot VIPs.

You are looking for Trigger Events that change the math:

  1. Funding Round: They just raised Series B. (Now they have budget).

  2. New Hire: They just hired a "Head of Partnerships." (Now they have bandwidth).

  3. Job Change: Your champion left Company A and moved to Company B. (Now you have a new prospect).

The Re-Engagement: When the trigger happens, you strike immediately.

  • "Congrats on the Series B! Does this unlock the resources for that project we discussed in February?"


Content as Passive Nurture

You can't email 500 people individually every month. That’s not scalable. Use LinkedIn Content as your broadcast channel.

If you know your Parking Lot is struggling with "Integration Fatigue," write a post about it.

  • The Algorithm: If you are connected, they will see it in their feed.

  • The Effect: They see your face + smart insight. You are nurturing them while you sleep.

Pro Tip: Occasionally, tag them in the comments (if highly relevant). "@John Doe, this reminds me of what we discussed regarding API limits."


The "Personal CRM" (Not Salesforce)

Your corporate CRM (Salesforce/HubSpot) is for the company. You need a Personal CRM for your career. In 2026, tools like Clay or simple Notion templates are essential.

Track the "Human Data" that Salesforce ignores:

  • Spouse's Name / Kids' Ages.

  • Favorite Sports Team.

  • Career Ambitions (e.g., "Wants to be a VP next year").

The Action: If you see their favorite team wins the Super Bowl, send a text. "Go Chiefs! Bet you’re celebrating today." This cuts through the corporate noise instantly. It builds a relationship, not a transaction.


The "Quarterly Roundup" Email

For your broader network (the "Tier 2" Parking Lot), start a curated newsletter. Not a "Company Newsletter" (Marketing spam). A "Personal Update."

Format (Bcc everyone):

*"Hi everyone,

3 quick things I learned in the ecosystem this quarter:

Vertical SaaS is pivoting to Payments.

The new compliance laws in EU are real.

[Link to a great podcast].

Hope you are all winning."*

This positions you as a Connector and a Thought Leader. When they are ready to buy, you are the first person they think of.


The Verdict for 2026

Business is a game of timing. You cannot force the timing, but you can be the one standing there when the clock strikes twelve.

Don't burn the bridge just because nobody is crossing it right now. Maintain it. Someday, an army will need to cross.

Stop flying blind. Turn on the lights.

Join the network where data is free and growth is automated.

Stop flying blind. Turn on the lights.

Join the network where data is free and growth is automated.

Stop flying blind. Turn on the lights.

Join the network where data is free and growth is automated.